Home buyers who are a little short on cash sometimes ask, “Can I get a loan from a family member to help with my down payment?”
Or, “Can I take a cash advance on my credit card to help with my down payment?”
The answer to both questions is no. Your down payment must be either your own money or gift money from family or grant money from an acceptable source. No part of your down payment can come from a loan, not even from your mom. No exceptions.
If a family member is providing cash toward your down payment, then they will need to sign a form letter stating it is a gift and no repayment is required. Usually, they also need to show the source of their gift money by providing a bank statement(s) or other document such as investment statement.
Why can’t you take a loan from your parents for a down payment? Because the lender thinks that if you get into financial trouble and have to make a choice between paying mom and dad or the mortgage bank, your family ties will be stronger and the bank will lose out. Therefore, it is an unacceptable risk to lending. The bank is not going to take “second position” behind your family.
Any other loan, such as a cash advance from a credit card, is also unacceptable. This would affect your debt ratio as well as put the bank at a higher risk for getting paid.
For a small down payment of only 3.5 percent of the purchase price, look at the FHA loan. FHA allows all of your down payment to be gift money from family.
If you are eligible for a VA loan, you may qualify for a zero down loan.
The no-down sub-prime loans of yesteryear are gone, and I think that’s a good thing. It takes time and discipline to save for a down payment and closing costs, and that’s not a bad thing either.
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What are the Tax consequences as a result of obtaining gift money for down payment assistance?
That is a good question, Ray. The recipient of gift money does not have to report it to the IRS, so there are no tax consequences.
According to law, the donor must report the gift if it is over $1,400. For more information on gift tax, see the IRS page here.
Thanks that is very helpful.